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6:22 PM May. 26, 2008 - 0 comments - [ post comment ]
Memorial Day Tribute to Our Heroes!

My very first attempt at making a movie/video with 'Movie Maker' ..all I can say is it's a blast, fun and a great new tool in my arsenal!

May You all have a Happy, Safe and Enjoyable
Memorial Day!

12:38 AM May. 25, 2008 - 0 comments - [ post comment ]

Inspired by Song

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I Hope You Dance, Love Mom

Another Mother's Day has come and gone. What better way to express your love for your children than to write to them, at least that is my thought! I personally am not musically inclined, however several are in my family. In fact, my father is a professional musican. As a child and adult I have witnessed my father practice and do the weekly 'jam' sessions all over the Phoenix Valley. We even lived in Nashville where he played the 'Grand Ole Opera' and he accompanied many top artists.

My love for music runs deep, I just was not blessed with vocal talent, however I have always made a connection with lyrics to songs.  I have been inspired by songs/lyrics over the years; there are many, however the one that I keep close to my heart is the song "I Hope You Dance," by Le Ann Womack. (please be sure to play the video manually below, the autostart has been disabled).

Often times we are challenged with the twists and turns of life, we can often times lose our faith and want to throw in the towel. We become confused and lonely, we get derailed and perhaps don't want to carry on. As a mother of three wonderful children, my desire while on this earth is that my children know that I love them unconditionally, that I desire for their happiness in all things. That they know without a shadow of a doubt that I wish them passion, success and true love! That they know I am here to carry them through lifes ups and downs. My children know my love for this song, probably more than they care too. On Mother's Day a few years ago I gave each one this book titled the same, "I Hope You Dance" which included the CD. Each was personalized with their photos, my favorite personal memories written to each one and a little note that if there was one song that I dedicate to them, this is the one!

Cory, Kip and Karly I dedicate this post to each of you. I want to express my gratitude and thankfulness that I was chosen to be your mother. That God blessed me with this calling, that I was able to be your temporary guardian while on this earth, that I could be the one you called, "Mother."

Individually you each are so talented, so kind, so loving to your fellow man, so compassionate to others. Your example to me has been exemplary, your passion is contagious and your heart is so giving! I Hope You Dance and you never lose your sense of wonder! If you get the chance to sit it out or dance, I Hope You Dance! Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens, I hope you live your dream and that you live, love and laugh forever! May this song inspire you as you each have inspired me to be better!

I love you,

Your Mother

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I Hope You Dance
Artist: Le Ann Womack

I hope you never lose your sense of wonder
You get your fill to eat
But always keep that hunger
May you never take one single breath for granted
God forbid love ever leave you empty handed
I hope you still feel small
When you stand by the ocean
Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens
Promise me you'll give faith a fighting chance

And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance
I hope you dance

I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Living might mean taking chances
But they're worth taking
Lovin' might be a mistake
But it's worth making
Don't let some hell bent heart
Leave you bitter
When you come close to selling out
Reconsider
Give the heavens above
More than just a passing glance

And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance
(Time is a real and constant motion always)
I hope you dance
(Rolling us along)
I hope you dance
(Tell me who)
I hope you dance
(Wants to look back on their youth and wonder)
(Where those years have gone)

I hope you still feel small
When you stand by the ocean
Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens
Promise me you'll give faith a fighting chance

And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
Dance
I hope you dance
I hope you dance
(Time is a real and constant motion always)
I hope you dance
(Rolling us along)
I hope you dance
(Tell me who)
(Wants to look back on their youth and wonder)
I hope you dance
(Where those years have gone)

(Tell me who)
I hope you dance
(Wants to look back on their youth and wonder)
(Where those years have gone)

 

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12:22 PM May. 23, 2008 - 0 comments - [ post comment ]
Filed under: Real Estate
Buy the best home
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Buy and Rent

Monetary Issues:

Non-Monetary Issues:

   
Renting:
  • Little or no maintenance costs;
  • No down payment. Do need security deposits and possibly first and last months rent;
  • Moving expenses in and out;
  • Can't lose money from falling home values;
  • No property tax;
  • Rent can rise with inflation;
  • Usually you get less space for the money.
  • No tax breaks, your landlord gets any and all tax breaks available.

Owning:

  • Ongoing repair and maintenance responsibility;
  • Down payment required, but for some, can be little or no money;
  • Can gain value and be available as a loan resource (equity loan);
  • Equity may go up, down or stay stagnant;
  • Moving expenses in and out;
  • On-time payments create good credit record. Late payments can harm credit score;
  • Over time, your mortgage balance decreases and equity builds, even if the value of the home does not increase;
  • Property taxes, insurance, etc.
  • There are tax advantages to owning a home (consult competent legal and/or accounting advice for details on your situation).

Renting and Buying?

Buy and Rent

Renting:

  • When the lease is up you can easily move out;
  • Flexibility;
  • Less work in maintaining a home or apartment;
  • Able to check out the neighborhood before making a permanent commitment to live there;
  • Less stressful than choosing a home;
  • Typically there are restrictions on noise, use, design, pets, children, etc.

Owning:

  • Moving typically requires more thought and time;
  • Definitely more responsibilities;
  • Requires the choice of neighborhood and home;
  • The ability to remodel or redecorate the home to match your needs and desires;
  • No restrictions on who occupies the home or how to use it (apart from Home Owner Associations);
  • Pride of ownership.

 

Should you buy or rent?

Should you sign another lease or should you jump in and buy your first home?

Despite the risks and responsibilities, most people enjoy homeownership. There are many rewards as mentioned above. Purchasing a home is generally a sound investment. As you are paying down your home loan, you are building equity. Not like most purchases, a home purchase can increase in value over time.

There is no question that people that own a home are typically better off long term than those that are renting. There are many ways to make home ownership a reachable goal.

When you are ready to buy and looking in the Phoenix metropolitain area, hire a REALTOR® like myself, who wants to earn your business. I invite you to contact me direct to assist you with all your real estate needs or questions! I will happily guide you through the biggest decision of your lifetime, don't hesitate to contact me at               480-202-3558        or email me at CRobinson@HSmove.com. If you need additional guidance on all the preliminary steps in purchasing a home such as getting pre-qualified be sure to contact me and I can help you every step of the way.

So many ask themselves, "should we rent or buy?" There is no right or wrong answer to buying or renting, the best decision is what is best for you. What is most important is that you do your homework. Put into consideration your situation financially, your commitment, weigh out the costs, responsibilities of homeownership. Start the process of getting pre-qualifed and getting yourself organized. Understanding the process of buying the best home.
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  Candace Robinson HomeSmart Real Estate| 1745 S. Alma School Rd. | Mesa, AZ 85210 |               480-202-3558        www.ArizonaHomeCentral.com
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Watch for the next series: How Much Home Can You Afford?

Series 1:  Before Your Search Begins - Basics of Home Buying

12:16 PM May. 23, 2008 - 0 comments - [ post comment ]
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Introduction: Buying A Home

Buying a home can be an exciting experience.  Understanding what to do and what move to make next is key.  I have organized some short explanations to help you understand the process to help you learn quick and easily. 

Buying a home can be one of the most rewarding and yet one of the most stressful experiences of your life.  I hope that you find this series helpful and easy to read. There are several ways to make home ownership a reachable goal. Hopefully this series will guide you as you learn and understand the home buying process and that your experience will be as satisfying as the experience of living in your new home. If you have any questions or Real Estate needs, please don't hesitate to contact me.
 

Series 1: BEFORE YOUR SEARCH BEGINS

Understanding the basics of home buying and being prepared for all the steps involved will make your search easier, faster, and more enjoyable.

 
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BORROWERS:

A Borrower is the party in a loan agreement which receives money or other instrument from a lender and promises to repay the lender in a specified time. Most home buyers need to borrow cash to pay home sellers in full.  In the world of mortgages,  a home owner's mortgage payments often become an investor's income.  The lenders rarely meet the borrowers, so they rely on a system of detailed documentation to assure that you can the home you're considering are worthy of their investment. 
  LENDERS:

Various institutions lend money for mortgages. Among them are mortgage banks, savings and loans, banks, and credit unions.  Lenders may keep loans and profit from interest and fees, or sell loans to other investors, profiting from the up-front fees and monthly payments from the actual lender.
  PACKAGERS:

Huge financial institutions such as Fannie Mae (FNMA) and Freddie Mac (FHMC) (the two primary originators of home loans) are packagers.  They buy loans from lenders (the ones you deal with), then either keep them or bundle them into large packages of $500 million or more.  These packaged loans, called mortgage-backed securities, are sold with guarantees to large investors.  In other words, if a home owner fails to repay a mortgage, the packager will pay the investors and take the loss. 
LARGER INVESTORS:

The large investors, such as insurance companies, pension funds, and mutual funds, buy the packages to earn the interest paid on mortgages.  Investors come from all over the world because American homeowners are considered to be among the most reliable groups of borrowers in the world.  The reliable stream of payments is a source of steady income, and helps these investors plan their cash flow.
 

SMALL INVESTORS:

The large investors may attract small investors (people like you) by offering the prospect of sharing in the steady income and low-risk investments.  One type of mutual fund, for example, is a Ginnie Mae (GNMA) fund, where the main portion of the income earned comes from home mortgage investments.  So if you invest in an insurance policy or a mutual fund for its income, you may actually be receiving income paid from your own mortgage payments!

 

IT'S A FACT


For 2006, a total of 67,035 resale homes were recorded, in contrast to 110,835 sales for 2005 and 102,115 recordings for 2004. While the market slowed appreciable, 2006 is the fourth best resale market year on record, falling between 2002 (62,625 sales) and 2003 (73,785 sales) numbers.

 

Candace Robinson is an Arizona Licensed Real Estate agent with HomeSmart Real Estate in Gilbert/Tempe. As a member of our local Arizona Association of REALTORS® and the National Association of REALTORS®. I work with both Buyers and Sellers serving the East Valley and surrounding areas including Gilbert, Chandler, Tempe, Mesa, Fountain Hills, Apache Junction, Ocotillo, Scottsdale, Cave Creek, Phoenix, Queen Creek, Casa Grande, Maricopa, Ahwatukee and more.

Providing a full range of real estate services HomeSmart is the Smart Move for all your real estate needs.  If you are looking into buying or selling a home in the Phoenix metropolitan area, hire a REALTOR® like myself, who wants to win your business and trust. I will be honored to share with you an educated idea of what your home's value is based on experience, local knowledge, and comparable actual sales in your neighborhood! To get a FREE no-obligation Home Evaluation specific to your needs be sure to contact me. If you have any general questions about buying or selling real estate with my HomeSmart marketing plan please don't hesitate to contact me at CRobinson@HSmove.com  ArizonaHomeCentral.com Copyright © CKR2007-2008

Series 2: TO RENT OR TO BUY?

What are the benefits and limitations? When will you be ready to buy a home?  Be sure to contact Candace Robinson Before Your Search Begins for all the Basics of Home Buying in Arizona!

10:44 PM May. 14, 2008 - 0 comments - [ post comment ]
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Inspirational Movies From Simple Truths
Each movie below is available for viewing. I have no direct relation with Simple Truths®. I was introduced to this wonderful site through a dear friend. I put the collection of movies here to share with those that are intrigued by inspirtational quotes, thoughts and motivating material. Brokers, REALTORS®, and business owners alike can benefit from these inspiring movies. Feel free to share these with your friends and family and visit their website for more great products at SimpleTruths.com. Be sure to check out their New Blog. Enjoy!

These are great motivational movies and great to share with your class, family and send to a friend to cheer them up!

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To A Child Love Is Spelled T-I-M-E

To a Child Love is Spelled T-I-M-E: An unforgetable movie! It will make you think and stir your soul.
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The Dash

The Dash: Making a difference with your life. Over 30 million views in the last 9 months. This 3 minute movie will grab your heart and not let it go.
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The Race

The Race: Life's greatest lesson. The Race is 5 minutes of thought provoking, heart-moving inspiration. "The Race is not just a homerun, it's a grand slam".
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The Power of Attitude

The Power of Attitude: Don't watch this powerful movie unless you're ready to get fired up! Visually stunning graphics coupled with a high energy soundtrack and powerful messages.
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What it Takes to be #1

What it Takes to Be #1: Lombardi Philosopy transcends football. His powerful words capture the fundamentals of success - in any sport, any business or in any life.
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The Simple Truths of Service

The Simple Truths of Service: An unforgettable true story about a young man with Down's Syndrome who changes the culture of a grocery story by being creative and giving the customers more than they expect. A wonderful story very near and dear to my heart. Dedicated to my bud Shea Hogle, I could see you working as a 'bagger' anyday! View Movie

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212 The Extra Degree

212 The Extra Degree: Be prepared to be inspired. Here's a warning...once you watch it, you will never forget it.
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The Nature of Success

The Nature of Success: A visually stimulating experience with a high energy soundtrack that will inspire you to reach your goals. Not to mention some fabulous Real Estate!
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The Power of Teamwork

The Power of Teamwork: Be inspired by the Ultimate Team. This movie is sure to motivate your team.
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Rock Solid Leadership

Rock Solid Leadership: How great leaders exceed expectations. Breathtaking photographs, great quotes, and uplifting music will bring the keys to leadership alive.
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One Solitary Life

One Solitary Life: A powerful essay from a 1926 sermon by James A. Frances depicts the life, journey and message of Jesus.
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10:07 PM May. 14, 2008 - 0 comments - [ post comment ]

 

The ABC's of LIFE...

Reflection in Mirror

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CCEPT DIFFERENCES

 

B

E KIND

 

C

OUNT YOUR BLESSINGS

 

D

REAM

 

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XPRESS THANKS

 

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ORGIVE

 

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IVE FREELY

 

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ARM NO ONE

 

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MAGINE MORE

 

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ETTISON

 

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EEP CONFIDENCES

 

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OVE TRULY

 

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ASTER SOMETHING

 

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URTURE MORE

 

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PEN YOUR MIND

 

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ACK LIGHTLY

 

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UELL RUMORS

 

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ECIPROCATE

 

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EEK WISDOM

 

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OUCH HEARTS

 

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NDERSTAND

 

V

ALUE TRUTH

 

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IN GRACIOUSLY

 

X

ERISCAPE

 

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EARN FOR PEACE

 

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EALOUSLY SUPPORT A CAUSE

 

This might be a little long winded and I apologize, however I am pretty passionate about this subject and of course my kids.

As I've pondered my entry for the challenge on
'Honesty and What it Means to You?'  For well over a week now, two questions kept coming to mind over and over again. How has honesty and integrity played a part in my world and have I been able to convey the importance of these two words to my children over the years?

I am a blessed Mother of three children, I started my family at a very young age and have learned much about integrity and honesty over my lifetime. I have two grown sons, Cory & Kip and a teenage daughter, Karly (our 'pink' bonus after nine years of no babies). Today (September 20th) we celebrated my youngest sons 25th birthday. Like so many other significant dates on the calendar I often find myself reflecting back over the years and ponder my role as a Mother. Asking myself, have I set a good example, did I show enough love, have I given too much advice, did I express my opinion too strongly? But mostly, I wonder if I have taught my children about being honest with their fellow man, themselves and in all their business dealings and relationships in life? Have I express the importance of ones character and explain how far integrity will take them? I hope so...but at times I can't help but wonder if they will take my mistakes in my life time as their sole example. Oh yes, I have made my mistakes and have learned from some of life's hard knocks and that integrity and character are much more valuable than popular choices are any day!

I feel that I strive to instill honesty and integrity in my daily life and hope that my family, friends and business clients see that in my reflection and behavior. I abide by all the laws of the land and would not condone illegal actions of any kind. I live a very modest lifestyle and find that if you live your life with integrity it seems to make life a lot less cumbersome.

I have been subject to some individuals in my lifetime that have lacked integrity and have been dishonest in many ways including business dealings. They have displayed some not so appealing behaviors with their interaction with others. My theory is that it's best to gravitate towards people that share similar values and morals as your own so that you aren't tempted to compromise your own convictions and values.

Teaching our children to be honest, to be true to their principles and standards should be an easy task right? Sure, there may be times in our life when it will not be popular to be honest, times when you may be shunned for being true to your standards. Everyone needs to be accepted and loved. However, a person does not gain lasting respect by giving in to social pressure and violating their personal standards. You may gain temporary popularity, but never lasting respect.

So it can be asked, "how can we show tolerance for other people’s opinions and lifestyles without jeopardizing our integrity?" Simple, if you choose to live a life of truth. Be honest with yourself and others. Do not rationalize that dishonesty is right. Choose friends who share your same standards. Treat everyone with kindness and respect. Prepare to be an influence for good in the world are just a few things we can do as an example for our children, to our fellow co-workers, friends, clients and even our neighbors.

Retain integrity and striving to think and act for oneself will cause others to respect you. Having integrity is by far more valuable than social acceptance. Your life will prosper and others will gravitate toward you, your clients will respect you for your convictions, trust you and want to do business with you.

Integrity is a quality of being complete, it is courage, it is forthrightness, goodness! Take these away and there is nothing left but an empty shell. Being honest and with integrity brings inner peace, purpose of life and security in all you do. Lack of integrity brings the opposite, discord, competition, hardship, fear and confusion.

Honesty and integrity with yourself and as a licensed REALTOR® or professional holds a higher standard of ethics and we should not be asking, “What will others think of me, and my practices?” but, “What do I think of myself if I do this or fail to do that?” Is it proper? Is it right?

As a mother I hope that my children deal honestly with their co-workers, employers, friends and family relationships and themselves. I pray they choose the right and set the example in their daily lives, that they seek those that deal honestly. They stand strong for their beliefs and they respect those that are different. That they don't fear being different because of the unpopular choice of todays society!

I have a favorite plaque on display that I keep near my entry way as others come into my home. This plaque displays a message that is a pretty simple guide of 'life skills' and a way of life that I hope my children heed. Across from the plaque I have my children's 8x10 photos of their headshots on the wall which reflect in the mirror hanging above the buffet that displays my plaque. From several angles you can see the plaque and the reflection of my children's faces in the mirror. No one probably makes the connection of the reflection in mirror but this Mother. However, I often wonder if my children feel they can look themselves in the mirror each day and be proud of their dealings, their choices and relationships. Do they reflect the image of honesty? Do they reflect the image of good character? Do they reflect the image of integrity in their lives? Are they leading a life of example, will they know when to make the right unpopular choice? I hope so, I pray so. Does your reflection please you? I hope that we remember daily that we owe our children, friends, clients, spouses, partners, employers, employees and especially ourselves nothing less than to be true to ourselves. To lead by example, to learn by our mistakes and to strive to be honest, to seek out those that will not want us to compromise our values. Be respectful to those that have different opinions and those that choose differently.

In parting, I share with you my most treasured plaque below and may we let it serve as guide in our own lives in our daily interactions and remember that respect is earned, integrity is a virtue and your word and character is all you really have. As we wear the badge as REALTORS® and professionals that we remember to act with integrity, make it a part of our daily routine, practice ethically, respect those that are different. Be an example to others.
May you be blessed with success and happiness in all you do. Thank you for reading my long winded thoughts! "Thank you Jo for inspiring me to reflect with your challenge."

 

Accept Differences

 


Candace Robinson, Arizona REALTOR HomeSmart Real Estate, www.ArizonaHomeCentral.com, (480) 202-3558, Serving the East Valley- Gilbert, Chandler, Tempe, Mesa, Ocotillo, Scottsdale, Phoenix, Queen Creek, Casa Grande, Maricopa, Ahwatukee Arizona.  

10:42 AM May. 13, 2008 - 0 comments - [ post comment ]
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Representing Buyers and Sellers Valley Wide

 

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Welcome to your virtual Arizona directory. I'm Candace Robinson, an Arizona Licensed Real Estate agent with HomeSmart Real Estate in Mesa/Gilbert/Tempe/Phoenix area. As a member of our local Arizona Association of REALTORS® and the National Association of REALTORS®. I work with both Buyers and Sellers serving the East Valley and surrounding areas including Gilbert, Chandler, Tempe, Mesa, Ocotillo, Scottsdale, Phoenix, Queen Creek, Casa Grande, Maricopa, Ahwatukee and more. 

Providing a full range of real estate services for you, Candace Robinson with Home Smart Real Estate is here to help you every step of the way!  If you are looking into buying or selling a home in the Phoenix metropolitan area, hire a REALTOR® like myself, who wants to win your business and trust.  I will be honored to share with you an educated idea of what your home's value is based on experience, local knowledge, and comparable actual sales in your neighborhood! To get a FREE no-obligation Home Evaluation specific to your needs be sure to contact me. If you have any general questions about buying or selling real estate with my Help-U-Sell's marketing plan please don't hesitate to contact me.

Gilbert is one of the fastest growing municipalities in the nation. And for good reason! For those seeking a dynamic, community minded environment, Gilbert has it all, delivering a contemporary suburban lifestyle bordered by the urban resources of the adjacent Phoenix.

Gilbert offers excellent freeway access. US-60 runs along the northern border of the Town, connecting to the other cities in the East Valley. The San Tan freeway runs directly through Gilbert from US-60 south, and west to the Interstate 10. Gilbert is only about 15 minutes from Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport.

Gilbert, Arizona has successfully maintained its small town feel and you will find the sense of community is focused on raising a family, quality education, plentiful leisure activities, and a fantastic business core. It is an excellent reference for businesses and residents alike. Gilbert was ranked #22 as the safest cities in US in 2006.

Gilbert and surrounding communities include parks, equestrian trails, golf courses, tennis courts, fishing, boating. Whatever your choice of lifestyle, Gilbert offers an excellent quality of life!

Town of Gilbert
Population by year

1950

1,833

1960

1,971

1970

5,717

1980

16,920

1990

29,122

2000

109,697

2005

173,989

2006

191,517

Gilbert is centrally located in Arizona and was incorporated on July 6, 1920. In 1902, the Arizona Eastern Railway asked for donations of right of way in order to establish a rail line between Phoenix and Florence. A rail siding was established on property owned by William "Bobby" Gilbert. The siding, and the town that sprung up around it, eventually became known as Gilbert. Gilbert was a prime farming community, fueled by the construction of the Roosevelt Dam and the Eastern and Consolidated Canals in 1911. It remained an agriculture town for many years, and was known as the "Hay Capital of the World" until the late 1920s. Gilbert began to take its current shape during the 1970s when the Town Council approved a strip annexation that encompassed 53 square miles of county land. Although the population was only 5,717 in 1970 the Council realized that Gilbert would eventually grow and develop much like the neighboring communities of Tempe, Mesa, and Chandler. In the last two decades, Gilbert has grown at a pace unparalleled by most communities in the United States, increasing in population from 29,122 in 1990 to over 191,000 in 2006.

 

I moved to Arizona in November of 1974 and have lived in the Gilbert/Mesa area ever since. I built my first home in Gilbert in 1987. I raised my three children in Gilbert and found this a very exciting place for all walks of life. The Gilbert School District was my main motivation to move from Mesa where my parents lived to Gilbert. Our first home was built by a local contractor, ALC Builders. I currently still live in Gilbert, Arizona and find this a fantastic place to raise your family, own your own business and be centrally located to so many wonderful resturants, shopping malls, parks, and recreational activities. Enjoy yourself in Gilbert, Arizona!

10:48 PM May. 11, 2008 - 6 comments - [ post comment ]

Inspired by Constance Mae Haynes 1931 - 1994

My intent this morning was to put together my entry for Jo & Bill‘s “Wisdom from” contest. Oddly enough I found my face coupled in my hands with tears streaming through my fingers with a feeling I thought I left behind long ago!

As a little girl I have faint memories of the ones that are to be key players in your little world, almost a silhouette of figures that haunt me. She was creative, she was so talented and could she decorate! I believed this woman could do anything. I recall her laughter, her voice and OH- that cough…

Constance Mae Haynes, my mother that I find that I barely knew but what I did know was just enough that carries me through. She has no idea how much of an impression she made in my life even though most of it was from a distance.

 If I could have just one more day and express to her what these little eyes could see. Many years slipped away since I didn’t live with my mother most of my youth. I recall being moved from parent to parent from the age of 4 years old. Eventually I moved west to live with my father at the age of 12 years old and never looked back. From a distance my mother kept in touch and played her role the best she knew how. She didn't attend my High School graduation, my wedding, the births of any of my children. I understand. I just wonder if she ever knew how much she inspired me to be still just like her in many ways.

My personal relationship with my mother is probably different than my siblings, as they could recall other memories depending on when they were born. You see my mother had eight children out of my 13 siblings. I don't recall my parents together really, I only remember the outline of some figures, like a silhouette of bodies when I was a child. I recall faint memories of them together working on do-it-yourself projects around the house.

Connie was so creative, so energetic and she loved her dolls, her crafts, paints and brushes! I often wondered if she loved that more than me. She had an amazing eye for color and interior design. I recall my pink bedroom on the third story, our black and white living room with a black leather bar, in Florida our red, white and blue kitchen! Her creativity spilled out in everything she did, her ability to build with her hands. Her flex pipe floor lamp and window wall unit and the room divider she built from scratch for our unisex bedroom! I’ll never forget the day when my parents punched a hole in a closet and placed a TV in the hole to give more space to the living room (a Realtor‘s nightmare)!

I don't recall tidiness, I don't recall running off to the usual childhood demands of today, I recall doll heads, fabrics, dish bottles and lots of sand pouring. Wow-- would she love the crafts available to her today!! She would love to see what Joann Fabrics has become, one of the largest crafts stores in the country! My Mom followed her dream and opened her own craft store many years later and became the big fish in the small pond in her community, Connie’s Kids & Krafts.

Oh how I wish I could call her on the phone and invite her to lunch!! What I wouldn't give to sit and sip a Starbucks with Mom. Just to tell her even though in her absence she was such an inspiration to me in so many ways. How I would love to tell her how much I used to just watch her, marvel at her beauty and admire her business attire, how much she motivated me. If I could just express to her what these little eyes could see. I wonder about her quiet moments, her fears, her challenges, her p***ions, her love affairs! So many questions yet unanswered…

One of the fondest qualities I recall of Connie was that “non judgmental attitude” I was exposed too. She never judged anyone and rarely gave her opinion! Someone in my family without an opinion. Now it's very possible she learned that late in life to keep her opinion to herself and the great lesson of "the less said the better". She was a unique lady for sure and I miss her silly self. To have the opportunity to speak to her one more time just to let her know I admire her strength, her determination and that I know she gave her best she knew how.

Another fond memory was when I had the opportunity to sit with both of my biological parents for the first time as a young adult. It was 1989, my front yard an awkward moment that quickly disappeared. It was if there wasn't a missed day between them. You know if I didn't know better, there was still a little flame ignited. It was a fun day, a moment that I will treasure for years to come. The first time I recall both my parents visible in my presence at the age of 27 years old.

I don't ever recall the typical mother demands of doing chores, cleaning the bathrooms, doing dishes. Perhaps that is to my advantage since I was second to the youngest and we all know how the babies get away with murder!! I missed the opportunity to tell my mother how much I loved her presence, I missed the opportunity to appreciate her short time we had with her and I terribly miss the times I would comb through her hair and paint her fingernails. Her presence was of laughter, quiet observation and a little fussy now and again. But she was a great lady, my Mother. I know if the truth could be known, she would love to know each and everyone of you today.

Remember to always say what you mean. If you love someone, tell them. Don't be afraid to express yourself. Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you. Because when you decide that it is the right time it might be too late. Seize the day. Never have regrets. Stay close to your friends and family, they have contributed to who you have become today.

I see her creativity come through our extended family now and I see her mark she has shared! I know she would be proud!! I know she would want to be smack in the middle of it all now. This I do know....

FAMILIES CAN BE FOREVER....

We will forever miss you Mom, Connie, Grandma......I know I do, even more today!! You are my inspiration!

Love from one of your forever daughters......

©2007 CKRobinson

Candace Robinson Arizona REALTOR® HomeSmart Real Estate CRobinson@HSmove.com

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The AZ Real Estate Blogging Network kicked off April 24th, 2008 with a big bang! The attendance was fantastic! We met at 9:00 am, Thursday at the SanTan Village Mall in Gilbert, Arizona. We mingled and enjoyed our lattes, morning coffees and sodas while settling in at 9:30 a.m. to a fabulous line-up of speakers, Teri Ellis, The Lady in Red, Paul Slaybaugh, our ActiveRain celebrity, Shailesh Ghirmire, AZ Mortgage Guru, Mike Jones, Mike in Tucson and clean up was with our local blogging celebrity, Jay Thompson! I personally want to thank the speakers for a marvelous job they did and for their expertise and willingness to make this kick-off meeting a huge success! Without you this would not have been the event it was! There was much to share and much to learn and it was great to see the p***ion and participation among the attendees. I really believe that this is going to be the monthly meeting to be at and to have such great resources available to each and everyone in attendance for free! You can't beat that! Enjoy the photos below in my slideshow and as time allows I will upload the Video footage of the speakers for those that missed it or for those that want to recap of the event.

A special 'thank you' to this month's Sponsors:
  • Shelli Bates - LandAmerica Lawyers Title - 480-688-9387
  • Mary Ellen Kohut - The Mortgage Advantage - 602-329-3437
  • Ron Kohatsu - World Inspection Network WIN - 480-844-2882
  • Jim Crandell - Homestead Appraisals - 480-390-8530


If you are interested in more information on the monthly meetings, email me direct at AZREBlogs@Yahoo.com and I will get you the upcoming event. May's meeting will be held May 29th, 2008 in the Tempe area. If you are interested in being included be sure to email me so that I can send out an invitation. Also be sure to check out our new group we just started called AZ Real Estate Blogging Network, come check it out!

 

 

 

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Candace Robinson is an Licensed Arizona Real Estate agent with HomeSmart Real Estate in Phoenix, Arizona metro area. As a member of our local Arizona ***ociation of REALTORS® and the National ***ociation of REALTORS®. She works with both Buyers and Sellers serving the East Valley and surrounding areas including Gilbert, Chandler, Tempe, Mesa, Fountain Hills, Apache Junction, Ocotillo, Scottsdale, Cave Creek, Phoenix, Queen Creek, Casa Grande, Maricopa, Ahwatukee and more.

Living in Arizona since 1974. She has raised three children in the Town of Gilbert and very familiar with the wonderful lifestyle that Arizona has to offer! If you are looking into buying or selling a home in the Phoenix metropolitan area, hire a REALTOR® like Candace, who wants to win your business and trust. Candace would be honored to share with you an educated idea of what your home's value is based on experience, local knowledge, and comparable actual sales in your neighborhood! To get a FREE no-obligation Home Evaluation specific to your needs be sure to contact Candace Robinson. If you have any general questions about buying or selling real estate in Arizona please don't hesitate to contact her at CRobinson@hsmove.com or call her direct at               480-202-3558        or click on the links below for all you real estate needs.

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Candace Robinson HomeSmart Arizona Real Estate Agent

Candace Robinson www.ArizonaHomeCentral.com serving all your Real Estate needs in the Phoenix metro area including Gilbert, Chandler, Tempe, Mesa, Fountain Hills, Apache Junction, Ocotillo, Scottsdale, Cave Creek, Phoenix, Queen Creek, Casa Grande, Maricopa, Ahwatukee and more. Call               602-889-3700       

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